Hi! I’m Vicki and I’m the voice behind Your Spiritual Self. I’m a mum of two children, two dogs, and I’m in my 30’s. I’ve been married since 2004.
I grew up absolutely certain there was more to life than what I was seeing. From quite an early age I felt unwilling to accept that ‘this was it’, and I felt as though I didn’t fit in because of it. I wasn’t content, and didn’t get much pleasure out of material things. I felt every emotion near me and because I didn’t know what an empath was, decided I was the cause of negativity every time I felt waves of anything coming from anyone. I must have spent the best part of 20 years wondering what I had done wrong – I certainly spent a long time trying to ‘prove myself’ so I could stop feeling so anxious. My ego controlled how I felt and when other people told me how I should be as well, I felt pretty worthless. Trying to be who I thought I should be took up so much energy that I lost connection to my spirit guides for a good while and I felt lost, scared and fed up.
Because I was psychic, I knew things too, but with an immature mind I was labelled tactless because I’d tell it like it was with no filter or care for anyone’s feelings. It took growing up to realise people don’t like you calling them out so bluntly, and that compassion goes a long way if you want to help people. I like to think I am better at being supportive yet encouraging these days!
The mediumship developed later, in my 20s, and is something I’m still working on now. I enjoy passing messages over from spirit but really, spirit just wants you to know they are fine and well in the light.
My goal is to use what I’ve learnt to help anyone who is feeling lost. I can help you drop ego and all it’s fear based mess, and instead live from your spiritual (or higher) self if you are ready to. Living your spiritual self is as easy as following what lights you up but being human, we can feel resistance to the idea that we are free to choose how we feel. Ego tells us certain stuff will get us where we should be, but what good is success or status if we don’t feel at peace? I’ll help you declare what you want, turn the ‘how’ over to spirit, then listen to the guidance that comes through. I offer affordable tarot guidance for anyone not ready to do this for themselves.
I believe we’re all here to learn from each other and need to connect in order to grow. My spiritual blog covers most ramblings, but feel free to click on the other information pages and let me know your thoughts!
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